This is how we do it: ‘I worried that he’d miss having sex with women’

Joe had never dated a bisexual man before, while Matt took time to trust his new partner, but now both are happy swapping roles in the bedroom
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Once I really trusted Matt, I started to enjoy being more dominant

When Joe worried he couldn’t compare, I told him I’d be fine never sleeping with a woman again