This is how we do it: ‘As carers, we have to be responsible. During sex, we relinquish control to each other’

Betsy and Felix have sex once a week when they are alone in the house – it frees up their minds just to be together

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I used to kick guys out of bed after any sexual encounters. But with Felix it was totally different from the start